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18 December 2010 @ 07:29 pm
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I cannot imagine feeling close enough to someone that I would think I have any right to an opinion as to whether or when they should have children.

Edit: I may not have said clearly what I was thinking. Rephrased: I cannot imagine feeling as though I had a right to be *consulted* regarding a decision to start a pregnancy.

Single exception: If for some unforeseen reason Dale decided he wanted to father a child (with someone else, obviously, since my tubes are long since tied), I'd expect to be consulted; we're married and that would have a significant effect on our finances.
 
 
browngirl on December 19th, 2010 02:57 am (UTC)
I think I see what you mean, and I agree with you. I may privately have thoughts about what I think people should do sometimes but unless they're planning to reproduce with me it's not my place to say.